There are more fish in the sea. Don’t
give up yet, you will always find another. Don’t let this break-up make the
better of you. Do the following sentences sound somewhat similar to you? They
should because they’re the most commonly used phrases to help a friend feel
better about a break-up. There are many other phrases that are used as well,
but to be honest, the person who has been heartbroken really does not want to
hear things like this. The person is looking for a friend to be there to listen
to what they have to say first, and give advice later.
The day of the break-up is a crucial
thing for the person. Give them some time and space, so they can get there mind
together. After about a day or so, it should be okay for you to approach your
friend to try to help them feel better. Try to avoid using clichés like the
ones listed above. Speak from the heart. No person wants to hear the same thing
over and over.
The sayings listed in the first
paragraph are frequently used in just about every romance comedy. Do you not
know that the reason these phrases were so well in these movies are because the
script says that it will work? Sure they look as if they would be helpful to
use, but they’re just simple. If you want to use these clichés because you
strongly believe they’ll help your friend feel better, please feel free to do
so. More than likely, they’re going to be of little use to them. Your friend
will gladly appreciate your very own words over something you heard on a movie.
Try not using statements like, “You were
too good for him/her anyways.” What is so wrong with statements like that, you
ask? Well, saying something like that might make your friend feel as if you
could have been responsible for the heartbreak in a way. They may feel that if
you knew they should have never gone out with him/her, you should have spoken
up before they started dating. Avoiding statements like that and the common
clichés will surely help your friend become slightly happier and will more than
likely help them move on.
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