Sorta Pissed

Dear Treal,
Your friends are constantly talking smack about your significant other and trying to persuade you to break up. You feel as though you are stuck in the middle and pressured to make a choice. What do you do? 
From, SortaPissed

Dear SortaPissed,
To be honest, what kind of friends will do such a thing. If you truly care for him/her, your friends' words shouldn't really bother you as much. Sure you might take their words to heart, but they shouldn't make you caught between two worlds. First you should ask for there reasoning and try to take it from there. If their words make you change your mind about your significant other, that means that deep down inside, that's what you want. Try rethinking what you feel is true and what your friends think is true. And you can also talk to him/her and bring down barriers.