Homo say what?

Dear Treal,
Assuming you are not gay, how would you react if you found out your partner was gay and they were hiding it from you?
-No Homo

Dear No Homo,
I will be slightly shocked, at first. I will feel some what used also. But I will try my best to forgive them, but also forgive myself. Forgiving yourself will be tough though. You are probably wondering why you need to forgive yourself, well, forgiving ones self will help you feel better. By forgiving yourself, you are making it clear that it is not truly your fault for there outcome. You couldn't do anything for the way they feel, or who they're attracted to. I hope this has helped you though.
From, Treal

MightBeSingle

Dear Treal,
Your significant other says they want to take a break. It's not been a year since you were together. What is your status?
From, Mightbesingle



Dear MightBeSingle,
Well to be honest, you are single, no might in that. What kind of break is that. My summer break isn't as long as that. You might as well find someone else because I'm pretty sure they have someone else by now. You don't have to wait for anyone for that long, while you're waiting for that person to come back to you, you're missing out on that truly special person that was meant for you.
In all realness, Treal

PS: A break is just a break-up that's missing something. Go find it and move on.

Sorta Pissed

Dear Treal,
Your friends are constantly talking smack about your significant other and trying to persuade you to break up. You feel as though you are stuck in the middle and pressured to make a choice. What do you do? 
From, SortaPissed

Dear SortaPissed,
To be honest, what kind of friends will do such a thing. If you truly care for him/her, your friends' words shouldn't really bother you as much. Sure you might take their words to heart, but they shouldn't make you caught between two worlds. First you should ask for there reasoning and try to take it from there. If their words make you change your mind about your significant other, that means that deep down inside, that's what you want. Try rethinking what you feel is true and what your friends think is true. And you can also talk to him/her and bring down barriers.

Confused ¿O_o?

Dear Treal
You found out your BF/GF was secretly sneaking in to your cell phone trying to find out things about you. What do you do?
From, Confused

Dear Confused,
There are many things that I might do if I was in this situation. I might over react and claim that they do not trust me. I might even look past the incident and call it curiosity. Ultimately I will confront them about the issue. I will honestly tell them that they did not need to be sneaky and go through my phone without my permission and all they had to do is ask.

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